
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Due to the valentines spirit that I'm in (romantic all that junk), I just find something amusing. One thing really sticks out to me about peoples perceptions nowadays.
Due to the valentines spirit that I'm in (romantic all that junk), I just find something amusing. One thing really sticks out to me about peoples perceptions nowadays.
Why is it necessary for a guy to open a door for a girl or respect only the girl that he likes or wants to show he loves her? When did being a gentleman only count for someone you are in a relationship with? Why do girls not expect to be respected by guys unless they are in a relationship?
In the same way, why does a girl want every guy that she is interested in to ogle at the amount of skin that she is showing, but then gets disgusted when some other guy notices.
GIRLS
Do girls even want to be respected anymore? Seems like they don't make it a requirement for a relationship (you know it's true), and they sure do act like it's an unusual or rare thing when a guy does show some respect.
GUYS
Why do we think that it's only necessary to respect those girls that we are attracted to? Why do we say "Oh she doesn't mind" or "She's cool" whenever we talk about things that would offend any other girl. In my opinion we need to treat all girls with more respect and then maybe those who don't act respectible will improve.
I'm not looking to get a pat on the back for being a gentleman cuz even I need to improve. It just bothers me that I can't even tell a girl she looks nice without everyone thinking that I like her. Especially during this time in my life when I don't really even want a girlfriend. Good grief...

